Additional Resources on Expectations

Many conflicts arise in marriage as the result of false expectations. Sometimes these expectations are unstated and unconscious, arising from family history or what feels ‘normal.’ Sometimes the problem is obvious and easy to overcome. However, should we turn aside all expectations in marriage? Scripture states that husbands and wives do have roles and responsibilities to live up to, so it is clear that not all expectations are bad. What is the source of our expectations? How can we uncover and turn away from false expectations? How do we respond when a spouse doesn’t respond to biblical responsibilities? Check out some of our favorite resources that will help with further understanding.

Scriptures to Study

• 1 Corinthians 13:4-8
• Galatians 5:22-23

Some of our Favorite Articles on Expectations

• He’s Not the Spiritual Leader I Wanted By Erin, Greg, and Gary Smalley
• Who Are We? Needs, Longings, and the Image of God in Man by Edward T. Welch

Books

• Lasting Promise by Scott Stanley

Videos

• Expectations by Ryan McCarthy

Podcasts

• The Quest for Contentment by Dave Harvey